Thursday, January 26, 2012

Eco trash couture





Strip down. Reinvent. Transform! Here's me offering you some tips on how you can recycle your old clothes into something contemporary and chic to don a sexy new designer look!!!

Racer back chic
Have too many old T-shirts that you just can’t throw away? Grab a pair of scissors and simply cut off the sleeves and the round neck. Voila! You’ve got yourself a racer back tee. Now to embellish, cut the neck a wee bit deeper, get some funky colored shoe laces, make holes around the front of the low cut (just like a shoe...) and pass them through. Complete the look with some funky bangles preferably multi colors (ma choice :P).

Clubwear goes desi
Got some of those comfy sequined kurtis but too bored to wear them? Get your tailor to stitch you some stylish halters out of them, that you can wear on your night out (this works best if the material of your kurta is silk), or then, something more casual like a loose fitting singlet to beat the summer heat (if the material of your kurta is cotton, that is).

Experimenting with salwars
It can be a tad bit difficult to re-use traditional garments. But since world fashion made way for Harem and Jasmine pants, make sure you don’t throw away those salwars. Get yourself some fancy borders that contrast the colours of the salwar and stitch them to the bottom of the pants (around the ankle). If you can get elastic beaded underneath here, nothing like it! Team them with a basic vest and some chunky jewellery around your neck. For a dressy look, you can team it up with a camisole top or tailored jacket. Whatever you choose, ensure it is well fitted to balance out the loose salwar look. When thinking of footwear with this ensemble, always wear trendy heels. This will give you the required added height and will also slim down the legs. On the other hand, flat shoes will deaden the salwars’ fluffy look.

The multi faceted dupatta:
There is so much you can do with those pretty dupattas. Cut the soft cotton printed variety and re-stitch into a stole that you can wear with denims and a vest. If you’re toying with silk dupattas, throw on some gold/silver sequins for the dressy quotient and use it as a scarf to add some character to your formal dressing. You can also use a flowy silk dupatta as a wrap around skirt. Tie it in style and dress it up with gladiator shoes and a well fitted top. Just ensure that the fabrics design is not so symmetrical and allows you to use it as a skirt. A lovely short dress can also be crafted out of the same.

The Zari story
Remember how you borrowed your mum’s saree, promised not to tear it but ended up doing so anyway? Well now it’s time to rejoice! For now you can put it to much better use. To get started, neatly cut the Zari border along the side and use it to embellish one of your plain, boring skirts. Get a traditional outfit such as a kurta or a kurti made from the remaining saree. If you’re feeling very daring, you can even stitch a nice dress from the same!! Cool ain't it???

Denim blues
What do you do with an old comfortable pair of denims that are so hard to throw away? Pull them out, grab a pair of scissors and simply cut them to any length you want. You can make them into shorts or ankle-length pants. To add more colour to your old blues, find some colourful fabric and replace the pockets or get your friends to do some graffiti on it for that ‘yo’ girl look!!!

The budget fashionista!


If you are someone who thinks that every woman’s wardrobe needs a solid infusion of new looks and new designs to remain fresh and exciting, then you should read me. Often, you might find yourself splurging money on the best brands to look fashionable. But if you think twice, you may discover a new and more comfortable substitute for what you thought was the only possible way!


Imagine getting your hands on a sequined dress by Gucci at Rs 375, shoes by Jimmy Choo at Rs 899, quilted clutch by Chanel at Rs 675 ain’t it a fashionista's dream? But this is the reality in Delhi and Mumbai markets!! So now you know where to head if you need to look expensively trendy without burning a hole in your pockets!


Not just that, I have some invaluable tips below that can help you to dress like a princess but at a working woman’s budget! Smoulder on…

Quality and the not the quantity matters - Not all your clothes have to be rich. Instead of having 10 cheap-looking dresses, you can choose to have 5 that are of good quality and show you classy!

Proper fit - Choose clothes that have a proper fit. Your clothes should fit your body just fine.


Shop secondhand – My suggestion is you can shop at a shop which offers good quality branded clothes for less. Today's unknown brand could become tomorrow's favorite! And yes, pick up your jeans at from factory outlets so you can save a few bucks to spend at a movie on a weekend. Showrooms can bomb you with special prices!!

Go for good fabrics – Choose your silks, wool and satins that feels amazing against your skin and not that make you look clingy.

Have an eye for sales – Keep a watch on the sales and discounts at the shopping malls. Check the papers and keep your ears open to gossiping colleagues. You might get a 50% offer at odd times.  


eBay – Go online and have a peek into ebay. You might pick up clothes for almost close to nothing but branded and in good condition. Who’s going to know anyways?


Recycle your clothes - Dig out your wardrobe and try some mix and matches. You will be surprised to find that an outfit top that you abandoned long time back looks great and compliments your newly bought one.


Try local shops – Don’t discard the idea of visiting your local shops completely. You never know they might have one or two latest and trendy outfits that might suit you well. Frequent them often. You never know when you might be lucky!! Hope that helps!!

Get, set & go for a party!

Ladies, every once in a while there comes an evening where your standard little black dress just isn’t enough. One of those nights where you’re invited to a very high society, glamorous event, and you have to look beyond spectacular. Well, lucky for you, I’m going to give you the low-down on exactly what to wear, should such an occasion arise!






Starting at the top, if there’s one trend we saw across red carpet events this year, it was for the pinned up, vintage look. Tie your long tresses into an old-school bun, or just pull your hair back and up, and you’ll have the photographers jumping over each other to get a shot of you! (honestly, it's happened to me :P)


When it comes to the dress, choose one with a fitting top and more flowing bottom. If you’re sure you can carry it off (and it’s tough, believe me!), you could even go in for a short train behind your dress. The colour of the season is red, FYI!


In keeping with the vintage look, when doing your make-up, be sure to use a bold lipstick and subtle eye shadow. Don’t overdo the cheeks, and keep them looking understated but flushed a bit. Lastly, make those eyelashes flutter with extensions or moderate amounts of mascara.


As always, diamonds have always proved to be a girl’s best friend. More so, if the girl is looking to glam up! But be careful not to go overboard with the jewellery, ladies! Keep it classy, keep it minimalist, and most of all, keep your smile sparkling as much as that gorgeous necklace you’re wearing! Remember, your smile is the best accessory, at any given time!


Finally, your ensemble is ready, and it’s time to choose your shoes! It will come as no surprise that after the preparation so far, you go in for the highest heels you can possibly walk around in! And if you’re the bold type, let that show through your footwear! Did I hear someone say Christian Louboutin? Well, if you can afford them, I’d say go for it!

Tuesday, December 06, 2011

Song for my love!


You were in pain but didn’t show it
You never left me & I did know it
Deep down you there is something intense
It’s a good show, keep up your pretense…

It’s hard to sing for a maddening lover
Who’s hard to read & not much of a giver
My words are few & a bittersweet symphony
You don’t need a song & that’s the irony…

Coz you always knew that I’d never leave you
To explain my love in words, I just don’t need to
All that’s between us is just 2000 miles
I’d cross the seas & be there in a while…

I just wanna show you the love of a doe
Who holds you without holding you down
I wanna hold you when the winds get colder
I wanna live this way till time ticks us older

Time is not healing...

I had a feeling that he’s near
And wonder if it’s just a dream
He’s right here now, it’s funny
Such things happen only on a movie screen…

He’s stepped into the land
He’s brought along the pain
Coz time is not healing him
When he leaves, he won't be the same…

He’s followed me all the while
And he’s read me everyday
Just wondering what in the world
Kept him so far far away…

He's angry & out of his head
Full of rage, he’s lost his control
He’s gotta stop before we're dead
Guess the seclusion has taken its toll…

He sends me a heart on chat
And says, ‘keep it safe will you?’
I hesitate to send mine back
Coz I didn’t want to show it’s broken in two…

I know he feels alone
When he’s million miles from home
The reason I hide my sorrows
And put on a happy face that shone…

I’m not one of them with tank tops
Flirty words and fluttering eyes
He’s come back loaded with doubts
Taking the words of some revengeful spies…

I’m tired of rumors & my foolish deeds
I'm sick of being followed by stinging bees
People saying what they want about me
I’m sick, why can't they just let me be 

Before he goes, can he read my mind?
When he did… he said (as written by him :P)
You’re a Kentucky Fried Chicken (KFC)
Finger licking good… baby!!!

Rolling stone!

He's not left his room in a while
Secret room of wonder & despair
He's got a rolled cigarette & a smile
As he sips on his Jack Daniel…
 
It’s been too long & dinner’s turning cold
Underneath her skin and jewelry
She waits & she hides her fears untold
Behind a wall that’s cold & ugly…
 
Her love is too much for him to take
He’s stunned in disbelief & he suffocates
To love him like her there is so few
He just can’t relate & he’s got no clue…
 
She ain’t no fool & she’s breaking her rule
She needs him & she’s out on a run
He’s still a mystery & sounds so cool
Yet she runs behind a rolling stone...
 
She doesn’t care what she’s headed for
She’s a doe & she’s run too far to come…
Just to show her naked heart to him
And bring her love way back home…

On the grave of my honor...

Wish to start a life on the grave of my honor
Throwing the pleas of my dearest in a corner
He’s still a kid & doesn’t understand, I can swear
I wish I could be as easy going as a Summer!
 
I can’t I’m too far gone, in love so deep
He can’t hear my screams, in deep pain I weep …
Maybe my expectations do let me down
Or maybe it’s just I'm too far off the ground
 
I try to be patient but it’s hurting deep inside
There’s still more to learn & put my hopes aside…
I’m afraid to speak & I go damn so numb
It’s a long wait for a train that don't come…
 
I'm gonna smile 'coz I want him happy
I'm gonna let him go in style & say he’s free
That’s how I want him to remember me
I'm gonna smile..Even if it kills me…

His love is here to stay...

All day long I listened to them talk
From the man I loved I should break away
I kept so numb and never replied back
When they said he’ll cause an heartache…
 
I was helpless, couldn’t prove them wrong
Or tell them that he’s the one
It’s his love that makes me strong
Without him it’s just a void, I can’t go on…
 
I had a feeling that he’s near
I write to him & wonder if it’s a dream
He’s right here now, he’s in my arm
Such things happen only on a movie screen…
 
Didn’t feel like asking why he went astray
As I truly believe that his love is here to stay
He gives me a thousand kisses
But no words to tell me how much he misses…
 
In the dead of the night he stands guard
Watches me as I play in the swimming pool
With peace on his face, the time he discards
I keep playing on like a kid in high school…
 
So many long and sleepless nights
Have ended now with him on my side
I speak so carefully & avoid first signs of fight…
Oh god! Thanks to you…I’m so satisfied…

One way conversations...

Tell me now am I insane?
I write to him “I wanna see you again”
He’s such a kid he writes me back
“In the rain my phone is ***ked”
 
Tell me now how telepathy works
How does one open up without any words
A one way conversation for a long time now
I’m tired it doesn’t work somehow…
 
I cry to sleep in the dead of the night
He appears with his arms open wide
Like a lost child I run to him
I wake up to the truth & smile at my whim…
 
I love him through sunshine & through the rain
If he looks into my mind, he’d hang his head in shame
I realize it’s not just this day am gonna weep
It’s the reason I’m keen on my eternal sleep…

Till you are back to love me again...

I wish I could lie at your side
When the darkness creeps inside
I wish I could rest on your chest
Till the sun shines at its best…
 
I wish you would pick me up
Drop me off and kiss me bye
Come running to me at dusk
As the moon appears in the sky…
 
I miss those petty quarrels & fights
Those crazy drives holding on to you
Those long talks into the nights
Forgetting its nearing twilight…
 
It was sudden I was taken aback
When you disappeared one day
I’m going back to where we started
It hurts to spend my life this way…
 
Fate has robbed you of your sight
To see things in the right light
I’m made for you, it’s said & done
Hold my hope as it falls down…
 
It’s not you, it’s not me, it’s just fate
I’m bleeding here & deep is the pain
I’ve built my world around you & I’d wait
Till you’re back to love me again…

As the diyas burn...

Wish him a happy Diwali
‘Thank you’ is all he wrote…
Write back to say I care
My dead spirit away it floats…
 
I just break down & I look around
The only festive spirit I see
Is loneliness, emptiness & cold
Without him near to hold…
 
I’ve had enough of the tears
I can’t deny I’m giving up
Misery starts to taste sweet
Yet life without him is unclear…

A mole on his chin!

 A tiny black mole on his chin
Made my heart belong to him
He never really liked the spot
I feel that it’s really hot…
 
A mole on the chin just means
He’s loves to be on the move
The thirst for adventure took him away
And yet I prefer the mole to stay…
 
The mole of his belongs with me
 Oh let it stay & forever be
R.I.P to the mole, now I don’t see it
I would still love him, with or without it!!

Kaleidoscope of feelings...

Hidden sadness, swallowed tears
Failing strength, dreadful fears
Fake smiles, lost game
Silent killing, slowing time
Mounting pressure, broken wings
Breached trust, hopeless dreams
Lonely nights, unconquerable lust
Standalone fights, heartless slaughter
Torrid pains, plentiful doubts
Fear in love, burning silence
Indefinite wait, endless distance
Untold secrets, caged feelings
Tested patience, willful bearings
Hateful fate, firm vows
Painful longing, unreciprocated love

Happily Ever After!

 You cut that cord sucking the life out of me
But for you I will forever be
Now lift your head and talk to me
Lay your troubled head down on my sleeve…
 
Baby I don’t want your deutsche card
Just stop giving me a life so hard
You are my Shrek & I love your swamp
Give me your love & I’d be so content…
 
Am I still your annoying talking donkey
Or has the position already been taken?
It’s my day & you ask me to ‘be happy’
You don’t understand & you are mistaken…
 
Pray you let go of everything you hold
Trust the story that’s yet to unfold
Let’s together begin a new chapter
That would be a happily ever after…

The Man Inside!

Every night is the same for my forlorn soul
I’m frozen by the phone, numb in the October cold
As the wind blows giving wings to my memories 
I remember his promise that sweeps my worries…
Torn in two I lie awake as my fears get paralyzed
Pleading free from his lies, that’s nothing but disguise
I wish he would cut his ties with all his lies
And realize that my third eye is not so blind…
Beneath that pretense, beneath that silence
Is still a boy who can’t handle the man inside  
But I hear those words he struggles to say
The truth that he holds inside but keeps away…
I hope he gets over with his self-denial
I hope he stays with me in this gruesome trial
It’s do or die, I can’t change my mind
He doesn't get it, I'm with him & behind